Some people like to argue about whether or not a one-night stand is better than being in a friends-with-benefits relationship. Why being friends with benefits can be nice, we think that one-night stands have more to offer you than a friends-with-benefits could ever hope to. Before you decide that friends-with-benefits is right for you, take some time to discover the great thing about one-night stands.
“Almost all relationships go through a drama phase”
When you have a one-night stand with someone, it greatly decreases your chance of having to deal with a drama queen later one, especially if the woman you were with doesn’t have any of your contact information. Sometimes you may simply be looking for sex without any type of relationship involved. Regardless of what anyone else may tell you, friendship is still a type of relationship. As you know, relationships require effort for both parties and more often than not, they require give and take. If you have a friends-with-benefits relationship with a woman, you may never know what to expect from her. One minute she may call you to tell you how badly she wants you inside of her and the next minute she may call you and ask you to help her move some furniture.
Another reason you should consider one-night stands is that the other person probably won’t be familiar with any of your friends or relatives. When you have a friends-with-benefits relationship, she may know about your friends, your family, and even your wife. This is because with friends you are more comfortable with speaking to them about different things going on with your life. While that may be fine while the two of you are on good terms, it may backfire for you if the two of you end up hating each other.
“One night stands can fulfill all your desires”
When you have a one-night stand, it is exciting because you never know what to expect. The woman you sleep with could be amazing in bed, or she may be average. You won’t be aware of the things she’ll do to you until the two of you get down to business. One-night stands also call for more variety. You can sleep with women of different races and cultures and shapes and sizes. When you’re in a friends-with-benefits relationship, you get the same friend over and over again. If you want to keep doing the same repetitive thing, you may as well just go home and sleep with your wife.
One-night stands allow you to hook up with a woman no matter where you are. Even if you are out of the providence or country, you can still fool around with different women before parting ways. Regardless of how close you and your friends-with-benefits woman is, we seriously doubt she is going to fly all over the country just to have sex with you.
If you prefer to have a bit of variety and fun with your fooling around, one-night stands are definitely the way to go. Don’t bother with more relationships and their complications if you have other, more exciting, alternatives.