“Take her to a hotel room where it’s just the two of you”
Maneuvering through the minefield, having a fling while still being involved takes a lot of skill. Besides juggling a good alibi to present to your wife or girlfriend, you need to have places where you can have sex with your fling when neither of your places are an option. Generally speaking, heading over to her place is more often than not the best choice, but some women will disagree with taking you home. There are different reasons for it, and when you insist you might actually make it worse. In the end, you might go home dissatisfied. This is why you should think ahead and know of alternative places for a fun night out.
The Classic: Hotels and Motels
If there’s no problem with you only returning to your wife or girlfriend the next day, hotels are a good option. Many have reasonable prices and they rarely care about the reasons for your stay. Additionally, there doesn’t have to be an awkward aftermath should you stay the full night with your fling. Either of you can leave early. Though if you do, make sure to handle the bill (if you haven’t already) unless you want to have her spread around that you’re not the best man to get involved with, even for a night. Hotels and motels are great if you’re being very spontaneous and their greatest advantage is that you can find them on almost every corner.
The Kinky: Adult Movie Theaters
With adult movie theaters, you can follow two strategies. You can head there alone and hope that an attractive woman willing to have a fling with you will turn up, or you can set up a date. The first depends a lot on luck and drifting around the movie theater message boards, as some people announce their presence. But, more often than not, you won’t be successful, simply because women rarely go to adult movie theaters by themselves and if they do, you won’t have much of a chance of getting her into a private area. On the other hand, you can set up a date with someone from a fling or casual dating site and immediately go to a private area with her. Adult movie theaters can be very exciting and sexually charge your meeting even further. However, unlike hotels, you will have to head home afterward.
For Extended Stays: Rentable Rooms and Houses
When you set up a fling date, you’ll find yourself with more flexibility in your preparations. This is where rentable rooms and houses come in. These aren’t just any common rooms you can find anywhere. They’re often catered especially to those looking to have sex somewhere other than their usual places. Accordingly, they’re lavishly decorated for a night or more with your fling. Of all the options, these are the most expensive, but they’re also a real treat.
Whichever you may choose, stay safe and have fun.