“Take her out for a date to some nice location”
When you want to have an affair and hook up with women, it’s not always easy to know how to handle them. After all, if you are married or if you’ve been in a committed relationship, it may have been a long time since you’ve been on the dating scene. Whether or not your hookup days are long past, you should know that it’s important to make her feel special. Making her feel cared for is important if you want her to stick around, and while it may be difficult to pull off if all you really want is to hook up with her, it will be worth the effort.
Compliment Her Generously
Obviously, complimenting a woman frequently will help her feel special. You should make sure to take the time and effort to come up with unique compliments that show her you care and you notice aspects about her that other guys may ignore. If you compliment her extremely often she may notice that you’re trying to butter her up, but she may not mind. Try not to repeat the same compliments all the time, either, since she’s more likely to notice you’re trying to flatter her than if you switch things up frequently.
Put Effort into Your Dates
Women go on typical dates all the time, and chances are good that you usually want to stick to simple dates as well. Dinner and a movie works fine as a date for anyone, even your woman on the side, but it can become very boring for both parties involved. Taking the effort to make your date something new and special will make your affair feel more special even without much work. Find out what she likes and try to tailor the date to her specific preferences. While classic dates will get the job done, the point is to give her a new experience she will remember and cherish. Try to keep things casual over romantic, but if all you can manage is something intimate and romantic then you may have to settle for it.
Stick around for a While
“Show her that you are not in just for sex”
Once you have actually hooked up with your woman on the side you need to play your cards right, especially if you want to meet up with her and have a chance at more sex in the future. The way to do this is to stick around for a while after sex. Don’t jump up immediately and yank your pants back on unless you absolutely cannot afford to stay a second longer. Otherwise, take the time to relax. Cuddle with her for a while, even though you likely may not really want to. The fact that you seem to care about her enough to give her what she wants after sex will make her feel special and keep her from feeling like just another hookup. If you just jump up and get ready to leave right after hooking up, she’s not going to appreciate it and you will likely have to look for someone else to hook up with.