If you are having an affair and your wife or girlfriend becomes suspicious of you, your life will suddenly become much more difficult. She may be snooping through your texts and internet browsing history to try and find incriminating evidence, but what you might be surprised to find out is that she may even snoop through your bank statements if she can. Spending money on an affair is basically a necessity, so it can be difficult to try and find out ways to avoid getting caught if your wife or girlfriend decides to snoop. Knowing how to cover your tracks and plan ahead will help you spend money on an affair without having to worry about it.
Plan Ahead and Have Separate Bank Accounts
“Open up a new bank account”
If your wife or girlfriend is on the same account as you, it becomes much easier for her to snoop around and see everything about your spending habits. Obviously this makes life difficult for many reasons, even for something as innocent as wanting to buy her a present without her knowing. While your wife may not appreciate the fact that you want to keep your accounts separate, if you know how to make your case you should be able to swing it. Once your accounts are separate, she has no real way of snooping unless you get physical bank statements she can look at. You will be free to spend the money you want on what you want without her noticing that it isn’t all adding up to money you spent on her.
Use Cash and Not Credit
“Make all purchases by cash and don’t use your credit card”
Using a credit card is one quick way to get caught, especially if bills come in the mail. Your wife or girlfriend will be more than happy to snoop and look over your credit card bill if she suspects something is up. While you may not be able to avoid using your credit card for certain things, you should always try to use cash when you buy something for your affair. Tailor your dates with your woman on the side specifically so that you can spend cash. While your wife may notice you’re spending money, she has no way of knowing where you spent it since no physical bill will come in. Using your credit card for everything you buy for your affair is a very easy way to get caught, so avoid it at all costs.
Limit Your Purchases
Obviously, one way to keep from getting caught spending money is simply to spend less money. If you know your wife is suspicious of you and is snooping through your information, it’s time to back off from your affair at least slightly. This means spending less money, which means less suspicion from your wife or girlfriend. Try not to be overly extravagant when you go out on dates with your woman on the side, and always split the bill if you can and if you know she won’t mind. The more money you spend, the more reason there is for suspicion.