“Tell her that you cannot live without her”
When you start having affairs, it can be difficult to know exactly how to please the women in your life without having things explode in your face. Sometimes it can feel downright impossible. It’s important to make your affair feel special while also keeping things relatively normal at home, at least until you’re ready to decide whether or not to stay with your current girlfriend or wife. You will want to wind up reassuring your wife or girlfriend that: she’s the one you want, so that she doesn’t get suspicious. You may also want to let your affair know that she’s special to you, especially if she doesn’t know you’re married or dating someone else.
Stick to Your Routine
Sticking to your established routine is very important when trying to make sure women feel secure in their relationship with you. This is true for your established relationship as well as your affair. If you usually meet or go out at a certain time, stick to that time. This is a good way of making sure the woman doesn’t get suspicious as well as subtly reassuring her that you care about her, which is always something you want to encourage. Don’t forgo date night with your partner just because you want to go out on a date with your woman on the side, because this is an easy way to quickly build her suspicions.
Small Gestures of Affection
If you’re not the most romantic guy ever, then you may want to take it easy with this step in case you seem too affectionate and make her suspicious of your changed behavior. Remember that consistency is key. If you used to be romantic when your relationship with your partner began, it’s time to bring out that side of yourself again, even if you feel like you have to force it. Offer to rub her feet or leave small notes around the house to show her how much you care. This will keep her happy with your relationship, which means she’ll be less suspicious. Showing these same kinds of affection to your woman on the side can also reassure her that you care about her that much more, so it’s always beneficial to you to spoil the women you’re sleeping with as much as possible.
Letting Her Know How Much She Means to You
“Show her that you really care for her”
For both your partner as well as your woman on the side, she’s likely to care about how much you care about her. Letting her know that you value her presence in your life will make her feel like she’s the only one you could possibly care about. You can do this by following the above instructions, but you will also want to try to make it as explicit as possible. Slip little compliments into conversations every now and then and remember to tell her that you appreciate her. This will make her feel special and reassure her that she’s the only one you want, even when it’s not true.