Dating multiple women can be fun and exhilarating. If you are a man who likes a bit of variety, juggling a few different women could be exactly what you’re looking for. However, too much of a good thing can end up going bad really quickly, so make sure that you’re not biting off more than you can chew.
You’re Getting Them Mixed Up
“Getting confused can get you caught”
While you may take a lot of pride in dating multiple women while still being in a relationship with your wife or girlfriend, more often that not, there is a limit to how many women you can date before things start becoming stressful and complicated. One of the first signs that may tell you that it’s time to let some women go is when you start mixing them up. Even if it only happens once or twice, the chances are that if you continue to date multiple women, it is going to keep happening. The same goes for if you happen to forget one or more of their names.
Another huge issue that comes along with dating too many women in addition to your wife or girlfriend is that you start believing that something one of the other women has said is something that your wife has said. This is obviously problematic, as it will put your wife on the alert that something is not quite right. For example, if you’re out shopping with your wife and you point to something that you remember her saying she liked only for her to tell you that she never said that, you could be in for some big trouble. While she may seem to overlook it the first time, she will never forget about it and when you do it again, she will pounce all over you.
You Aren’t Happy Anymore
“You are always thinking of lies to get out of the situation”
When you’re cheating on your wife or girlfriend, it’s supposed to be thrilling and exciting. If you’re finding more often that not that you’re bored, exhausted, or stressed out, it may be time for you to end your flings with some or all of the other women. Sometimes we only need to fool around for a certain period of time just to get it out of our systems before we go back to being fully committed to our significant others. If you feel like this is happening to you, make sure to break it off quickly with the other women. Do not allow anything to drag out. It will just make things complicated.
Whether you’ve decided to date only one other woman or four of them, remember to keep your mental and physical well being ahead of everyone and everything else. If you begin feeling like it’s too exhausting to keep dating multiple women, simply break up with them. Remember to put into place ways to prevent being found out by your wife or blackmailed by an angry lover. If you ever feel like you don’t have everything under control, quickly make an escape. If you don’t, bad things are sure to follow.