When you’re in a relationship you tend to find out that there are some things that you do that are just annoying. She does them too, but that’s her own problem to work on. While you’re not always sure what exactly it is that you’re doing that somehow seems to piss her off so much, you probably notice that there’s got to be some sort of change to fix them. But an even better idea would be to prepare for your next relationship by just breaking them now. That way you won’t have to go through that awkward phase. Most men make at least a few of the same bad practices habits, like:
Leaving a Trail
“Learn to keep your room organized”
Guys tend to leave a trail when they walk around the house. If they’re on the way to the shower the clothes come off at random spots behind him. In the kitchen the pots, pans, food, and wrappers can all make a clear path of where he was walking. It’s annoying because there seems to be a mess no matter where she goes in the house, but in actuality it’s just your crap in a line. Try to be aware of what you’re doing and bundle it all in one place. While there’s still a pile of crap, at least it’s a pile and not a great wall.
Every guy has something that he loves. It might be sports, history shows, or cars. But when that thing happens he zones out and puts all of his focus on it. Women come home and want to talk about their day. That’s fine, but more often than not they’re met with a blob of a person that just nods and says “uh-huh”. There’s no one to blame here, really. But it’s not awesome to try and have a conversation with someone when the other person won’t listen. You might be stressed, distracted, or just tired but barely listening to her is pretty much in the same category as ignoring her.
“She’ll slap you if you do it once more”
Most guys are noisy, but not in the way that you’re thinking. Men are the kings of orifices. We burp, we fart, and we blow snot-rockets (don’t deny it). If there’s a hole with something that needs to be noisily blown out of it then we’re the one to call. But the thing is, all of that is disgusting. We know this, but it’s so much easier to just let things out then to have them appropriately hidden. When you’re first getting to know a lady you aren’t going to let your ass gas loose right in front of her. You hold onto it until you can release the beast elsewhere. As we get comfortable we conceal it less and less. But that doesn’t make it okay. She should still be someone whom you want to impress, so seriously try to hold in your man noises. She’ll appreciate the quiet. If something slips every now and again that’s fine, but make an effort here.