When you start meeting women to have an affair with, it’s normal to feel slightly overwhelmed. It has probably been a long time since you’ve been on the dating scene, especially if you’ve been married or in a committed relationship for a while. You may not know where to go or what to do on dates with new women anymore, but don’t stress yourself out. With just a little bit of effort you can figure out how to take your woman on the side on all kinds of dates that will excite and interest her. Soon you’ll be well on your way to hooking up with her.
Stick to the Classic Date Ideas, but Add a Twist
There’s nothing wrong with trying the classic dinner and a movie date if you don’t know what else to do, but if you want to really score points with a woman, you have to put a little more effort in. Try taking a classic date but adding a twist to it to make it seem more unique. Forgo the usual Italian restaurant you enjoy and instead find a hole in the wall restaurant you’ve never tried before. Likewise, instead of going out to the nearest theater for your movie, find an indie or small movie theater to go to – if you can, find one that has couple seating. Or you can combine the two and go to a movie theater with a restaurant built into it. The slightly new twist on a classic will be just the thing you need to get your relationship with your affair rolling.
Take a Weekend Off
“Go out of your town for the weekend”
If you can manage to get away for a whole weekend without your wife or girlfriend being suspicious – consider telling her you have a business trip – this can be a great opportunity to go on an extended date with your woman on the side. If your fling is agreeable, you can take a whole weekend to go and visit new places and do new things together. This offers a great variety of activities for you to pursue together, not to mention all the time you can spend getting intimate. Just remember to try and use a separate credit card or use cash while you’re on your trip so your wife doesn’t question it too much.
Enjoy Nature Once in a While
“Go for a picnic in the lap of nature”
Going on a more natural date can be a great money saver as well as being a good way to connect with your date. This is also good because it tends to be more private than other options, so there’s less chance of someone you know seeing you with a different woman. Take her out on a scenic walk and have a picnic with her, or go on a hike or bike trail if she’s particularly outdoorsy and sporty. You may be surprised by how much you enjoy the date and how much she appreciates it – and if you’re lucky you can even try your hand at public sex.